Limits

Depending on how one deals with failures, one can either expand life or backslide.

A failure may be the sign of the 'current' limit of own capacity.

One may wish to stay within the range of the limit so that she/he would not make similar mistakes again.

But this could be a wrong attitude, if wishing to develop own self.

If the person is intimidated and withdraw into the radius of the limitation, there will be no further growth.

Worse yet, the capability can degenerate, and one may has to suffer less freedom.

Actually, detecting the limit is the best opportunity to know which aspect of own self can be improved.

By focusing on it, one can expand the border of the capacity a little more.

Try to challenge or improve the very thing in which one failed.

But start with moderate or modest pressure while gradually increase the level of it.

Then one can strengthen own ability to the level of easily coping with the matter which was once beyond the capacity.

It can be applied to every aspect of our life.

If such elements of the conscious training or exercises are put in daily life, the life can be filled with the abundance of growth.