Way

The bast way to acquire confidence is to challenge and overcome the very thing which one wants to have confidence about.

The reason why one can not get confidence is simply due to an attitude of evasion.

That only lets one linger around various thoughts while wasting a great deal of time.

One could say thousands of things for not facing the music.

But it only generates an incessant sense of futility.

Only a wee bit of courage will help one to try and dance with it.

Once one overcomes it, the confidence will become a part of self as if it is a matter of course.